Asked by datingwhileplus
My name’s Anthony and I have come to realize that I love big women. I have talked to a lot of women this year and majority of them were big women. It is my preference not a fetish. I am not a pervert or anything like that. I just love big women and will marry one someday. I live in St. Louis, Mo right now.
There’s something I’d like to share with the population here where the beautiful bigger lovies reside. For a lot of girls that do message me they do it anonymously, and I’ve found that the ones who do it anonymously aren’t skinny. I find this to be very sad, because girls with more weight shouldn’t be afraid of what other people think. Though, I know it’s hard with the media telling you the “ideal” girl needs to be a size 0. These ideas aren’t realistic though. They’re judgmental and cruel in their own nature. It’s up to the bigger girls to realize this for themselves though. This page is proof that a lot of us guys do like more size. In my opinion bigger girls have more curves. They have more definition. And they’re just as beautiful as the skinny girl sitting next to them. So, please don’t turn into that skinny girl who picks over her bloody salad while eating dinner. Instead, hold your head high and let us big lovers love you. :D
Asked by Anonymous
No, I am. I don’t know what happened with his submission, it didn’t show a personal blog, which is a shame. It’s a mystery! A lot of people commented and said he probably wore a fedora, which I’m inclined to agree with. He probably has a neck beard too :P
JUSTIN, where are you?!?!?!
Greetings. I live in Phoenix. Most people tell me they’ve never met anyone like me, and no one’s ever disputed the fact that I’m unique.
I really am 6’ 4”. Barefoot. Apparently some people lie on dating profiles. Who knew? You can be 5”11” and I’ll still tower over you.
I’m Exclusively attracted to fat chicks. I love softness…I love curves. I love big breasts and big butts. I love hourglass shapes, apples, and pears alike. I love how big girls tend to be non-superficial and real.
I have a very dry, sardonic sense of humor—if you get that Fight Club was a comedy, that’s a pretty good idea of what makes me tick. Other favorite movies include Pulp Fiction (and anything Tarantino’s ever done), Ocean’s 11, and anything by Wes Anderson or the Coen brothers (The Big Lebowski) I also like comedy quite a bit…if I have to pick a favorite comedy, it’s either Anger Management or Borat. Call it juvenile, but the scene with two naked, angry Eastern European men chasing each other through a crowded posh hotel had me damn near unconscious. Anything Star Wars or X-Men will get me in the theater too. And just about any British crime movie…think Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels or Snatch.
As far as music goes, I listen to mostly rock but I’ll give anything a chance. I like about 5 country songs and 3 of them are Johnny Cash. My favorite band ever is Clutch. If you’re a fan, you should definitely respond. Others include but are not limited to Tool, NIN, Queens of the Stone Age, The Black Keys (how can you not like the Black Keys?) The Who, Beatles, Stones, Doors, Hendrix…you get the idea. I like music made by actual musicians, not synthetic auto-tuned pop bullshizzle that’s made to sell records. Ke$ha can ki$$ my a$$. I get very opinionated about music but don’t take that seriously…it’s just one of my quirks. I have many.
I have this weird style of painting I call “Abstract Industrial”. I paint on plywood with spray paint cause why the hell not? It’s fun. Try it. I’m an aspiring stand-up comedian as well. Just open mike for now but it’s my dream to do it for a living. I have 5 tattoos and I’m planning on getting more. All custom, no flash and they all mean something. Whatever the genre, I think my common thread is originality and artistic integrity. Art is emotion transferred to a medium the senses can understand. I can’t imagine life without it.
I believe in chivalry. I’ll open the door for you, pull out your chair, and move you to the inside if we’re walking down the street. At the same time, I like women with strong personalities and opinions.
I’m a self-taught amateur chef. People have told me they’d kill for my Risotto. I’m not into sports at all—for me, the big game is Iron Chef or Hell’s Kitchen. I also sing a lot of karaoke…sometimes competitively. I’m also a big fan of stand-up comedy…the more eloquently vulgar, the better.
I don’t drink much or smoke cigarettes. I prefer a non-smoker but it’s not a deal breaker. I’m a card-carrying medical marijuana patient so please be ok with that.
I’m an Atheist and a Secular Humanist. I’m not a good match for someone who belongs to an organized religion. I find this to be a major point of compatibility. I absolutely support everyone’s right to believe as they choose…I’m just not into people telling me what my morals should be. Also, I’m a passionate supporter of gay rights (my BFF is gay) and that tends to be something religion opposes. I can’t get behind that.
My underlying philosophy for life in general is “Be who you are and make no apologies”.
I’m naughty but nice, edgy but caring, sarcastic but sweet, intellectual without being snobby, and confident without being arrogant.
I’m a highly sexual person. That’s not all I want out of a relationship—there’s a whole lot more to me than that—but my ideal match should have a similar appetite. Let’s be honest…it’s a major point of compatibility. I’m on Fetlife. If you know what Fetlife is, we probably have plenty in common. If you don’t know what it is, look it up. If it intrigues you, that’s a good sign. You’ll at least be curious and fascinated. Life is an adventure and we should always be open to new and interesting experiences. I’ll give you a clue…tattoos are hot, corsets are sexy, I like unskinny women, I’m a true Logophile, and it gets less obvious from there. Don’t worry..I’m not into anything too weird ;)
I’m an acquired taste. I’m an iconoclast and an autodidact. I use polysyllabic words in everyday conversation and I text with correct grammar and punctuation.
I’m complicated. I’m many things, some contradictory. I used to be a bouncer but I love to kiss and cuddle. Figure that one out ;)
I want to fall in love with someone as unhinged as I am. I’m also looking to make platonic friends with cool and interesting people. If any or all of the above intrigues you, don’t be shy and drop me a line. There’s no regaining lost opportunity.
France/UK/And other places (I travel a lot)
16 going on 17 in October
Intro: I love beauts. Period. Big or small. Every girl to me has their own beautiful characteristics about them. I’m a nice guy, respectful, and horrible at starting conversations. Lol. But I get along with most people because I’m pretty chill. So talk to me, loves.
Asked by Anonymous
Let me explain something about the term “BBW.” What you’re asking right now is exactly what it is for. You don’t have to identify at all with a patronizing three-letter word or anything about how other people use it, all you need to know is those are the three magic letters to help like-minded people find you. You don’t see anyone else nitpicking about about being a “SBF” or “DWM” right?
Obviously “BBW” has all kinds of pervasive stigmas and perks and weird cultural signifiers attached to it, some of which may be improved with a new word that has yet to exist and take majority meaning, some of which will always be true, for better or worse.
I don’t personally ever refer to anyone as a BBW or SSBBW. But when I am looking to Google for an event or search Craigslist or OKCupid for people with the body type I am attracted to, that and only that is what “BBW” was made for, and you don’t ever have to use it otherwise. Really, do you see a guy in his 20s in 2013 typing out “full figured” into a search?
Anyway, as far as not scaring off guys who aren’t into that, if you’re fat, you’re fat. I personally don’t understand people who try to conceal their body type and pray that their surprised date will dig your personality. Put it out there, out front. Help the people find you who are really looking to find you. You want uninterested parties to not waste your time, or worse, harass you in person.
Yes, putting your full body out there in pics and listing yourself as a BBW opens you up to the possibility of more online harassment. Report every single one who does that. In most cases, they’ll be IP banned from the site. Obviously not a permanent solution but it severely inconveniences these pricks in such a way that maybe, just maybe, they will cut it out and it will lose its entertainment value for them. But yeah, would you rather be harassed online or in person? And conversely, would you rather someone tell you upfront that they’re into the full picture of you, or add extra anxiety to your first date with someone whose motives you’re unsure of?
If you’re really worried, put BBW in your profile as a search term, and add a little note saying something to the effect of, “Hey guys, I’ll only respond to (POLITE) messages indicating somewhere (IN A POLITE WAY) that you’re interested in dating a fat girl, over [whatever number] pounds. That way I know where you’re coming from. Please don’t message me if you’re unable to communicate that or admit it to yourself. Thanks!”